I tell my friends I love them because it’s true & I do. I have built long lasting relationships in this beautiful community. I text my friends daily. We’re not the same. lol Smile for me!

I assume you are asking about saying it to a provider?

I love you & we have never met!  

I find it hard to believe this has been up for 24hrs & no one has commented. Is saying I love you taboo? I’m a genuine loving & caring Super Mamácita. My friends reciprocate & I know they truly love me too!

I get Christmas cards from my bank as well.  

For me the point and best part about partner sex is the feeling of falling in love, even for a short time.  While I'm in that state and with her, I do say "I love you".  Never had a provider misunderstand seriously, either; they all seem to know their power to induce hormonal temporary insanity and why not to take it as permanent insanity.  
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I've heard horror stories of clients going beyond temporary, or of providers taking advantage, though not in my own experience  so far.  
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Some folks sprinkle "I love you" around freely to friends and acquaintances, and that's OK but not my style nor to my taste.  

I was pounding this hot MILF hooker from behind and she started to yell, "Marry me! Marry me!"
I started to laugh.
Is that like saying "I love you?"
Just wondering.

That's hilarious!

I also love my clients, but I don't always say it. Sometimes when saying goodbye, it comes out and they always seem pleased.

Being an only child, having ick parents and no other family to speak of has made me cherish all of my intimate friendships. And sometimes I tell them so.

Look, you can throw the word love around like it’s saying bruh or dude or what have you, but its meaning gets diluted. I would never tell a provider I love her. This doesn’t mean I don’t care about her. I genuinely care about all people and their well being. But I save the word love for my close family and ladies who I connect with in a way that isn’t paying to bang. Tbh, providers love my money more than me, and if one was to say those two words to me, I would probably laugh.

I've had a few hookers say "I love you" to me when we're fucking. I always stop and take a minute to explain to them that they actually love my money because if they loved ME we'd be making love without me having to pay them.

It’s possible to love someone, as a person and a friend, and still have a professional relationship with them. But not everyone can separate those two concepts, as evidenced by some of the other posts in this thread.  

 
I’ve only told one provider “I love you.” I told her because I knew her well and knew she’d understand what I meant. And she did, and told me she loves me.

 
If a provider told me she loves me, as a person and even a friend, I’d appreciate the thought. If they meant anything else, I’d have to say farewell to her.

add an "R" to you to make it "your", as in, "I love your pussy", I love your tits", "I love your ass", "I love your mouth on my dick", etc.   There is nothing wrong with using a strong word like "love" to describe your feelings about specific parts of them, or their services, that you love.  Anything more than that is disingenuous for P4P participants to say.

My ATF and I have had serious crushes on each other since we first met.  She was the first one to say it, but i had feelings for her from the first date.   We've kept it strictly business though.

it was casual and was said out of genuine appreciation, but she would have none of it . Obviously  she had heard this a ' million ' times before ,so to speak. After many failed relationships and a few bad incidents while young and growing up, she find it hard to trust anyone or believe anyone  could actually love and appreciate  her beyond the sex.
 
So, while it's a good thing say, some people  interpretation ,reaction, and acceptance might be different .

That’s why I’ve only said those words to one provider, who I knew VERY well… well enough to know that she’d recognize what I said was about philia—the kind of love that strong friends feel toward each other. And she did.

My rule of thumb is to not say it to providers. Or really anyone I don't genuinely love. Even with people whom I love I find with most action speaks louder than words.  

 
With that said, I don't view it as sacred as some, but I understand it can cause a lot of commotion. And in different cultures it can also be viewed and interpreted differently.

 
If I hear a provider say it to me? I will not make a big deal of it, certainly I will not stop in middle of hot steamy session and give her a lecture. Lol, just thinking about ithat makes me deflate hard. Lectures bickering and other stuff is for these forums, not during sex. Haha.  

 
But the provider shouldn't expect me to reciprocate in saying those words back.  

Like someone else said, I do say "I love the way you suck me", "I love it", and such. Ie loving the sex, maybe her body etc.

A few years ago I had a client say "Love You" as he was leaving. I do not really think he meant it in that way, or that he was looney. It was kinda cute, b/c he was SUCH a nice man, a regular. I feel like he said it by mistake, b/c he was used to saying it to his family, etc, when leaving. He played it off well though, if he was morified, I couldn't tell. I have NO idea what I even said back to him!

My favorite provider said it accidentally I assumed after a meeting and I thought about it endlessly until I brought it up 3 weeks later and she says I must have been hearing things.

I was happy for while, though. 🥹

This one made me laugh.

That was the last time I saw her. We had been pretty regular for 3 or 4 years (at least). As I was leaving,she said "I love you". That freaked me out. I never called her again.

Or at least made her pretty sad.  

 
BUT, if you definitely didn’t feel the same way and you knew you never would, then what you did was better than leading her on or trying to take advantage for free services. IMO.  

 
Honestly sounds like kind of a tough situation for both of you.

If she was still taking your money, her definition of love is distorted.

what she meant by “I love you” isn’t what you interpret those words to mean.

Saying "I love you" is not the same as saying "I am in love with you." I have told MANY people I love them but have told VERY FEW people I was "in" love with them, as the difference between the two phrases is vast.

I don’t think most people intentionally avoid saying I Love You to those they are  in love with. While there is a distinction, I would say people use it interchangeably. I’m sure people say I love you to other relatives and friends who they care deeply for. I have said it myself to my parents. However, when it’s a sexual partner the “I Care for You” meaning of it becomes a lot less likely than the “I’m in Love With You” meaning.

And I mean it from the bottom of my heart

First, you said people use “I love you” and “I’m in love with you” interchangeably. Then you noted how people say “I love you” to relatives, friends, and parents. I’m sure the two phrases aren’t interchangeable in those cases.

 
The problem with saying “I love you” without both parties being clear as to what it means is that there’s several kinds of love—at least seven, not counting self-love. And more than one of those includes the concept of being “in love” with someone.

 
That’s why I don’t say “I love you” to someone unless I know them well enough to be sure they’ll understand what I mean. And it’s also why it’s impossible to know what someone else meant by “I love you” without knowing them and their intentions. But I wouldn’t assume that two people who have sex with each other can only love each other in the “in love” manner, especially when the sex is transactional.

Thanks Steve, you're a true wonder

That’s not what I was saying when I said interchangeably. I was saying people use I Love You interchangeably to mean both in love and care for you. I don’t think anyone says I’m in love with you to mean anything else. It’s obviously more clear in its meaning, which is where I get Robert’s point. I just donut think most people intentionally say in love with you to make it clear. I’m saying most people just say I love you in either scenarios.

donut-think?  donut-think love? [heart emoji]?

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Where one person says I love you and the other person says I’m hungry, let’s get something to eat.  

 
Unless of course you’re married.

Homer is awesome.

Lmao now there is a typo I can live with.

that if she asks her husband if he is hungry and he says no, she should give him sex.  If she asks if he is horny and he says no, she should make him a sandwich.  Men are actually that simple to understand, yet so few wives have figured it out.    Lol

Hey!!

Stop telling everyone what I yell in the bedroom!!!  

xoxo

HA! A bit oversimplified perhaps but a lot of truth in that.  

 
In all honesty I just saw an opportunity to make a Seinfeld reference and I was too lazy to find a link.

Others realize they're just a "Part-Time Lover".
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=74mL5f7tr5w
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[Chorus]
We are undercover passion on the run, yeah
Chasing love up against the sun
We are strangers by day, lovers by night
Knowing it's so wrong, but feeling so right.
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(At least "Treat her right" isn't a lyric.)

"Merry me!!!  Merry me!!!  But it still means she was having a good time.  Lol

I never say "I Love You" to a client. The second you do that then you ruin your escort career.

It was on accident. I don’t normally talk on the phone with anyone but my loved ones. And, this particular client was older and couldn’t see his phone keyboard well enough to text, so he calls me to schedule appointments.  

We were ending our call, and out of habit I go, “Love you, bye.” And, he, very confused sounding replied, “Uhhh, I love you too???” I immediately called him back and apologized, and we had a good laugh about it. Occasionally, he makes jokes about it when we see each other.  

I also accidentally told the Marco’s pizza worker I loved her on the phone. She said, “Thanks, ma’am.” 😂

that customer, but how would it ruin your whole escort career by saying it to one customer?  

It could ruin it for a Providers Career by saying "I Love You" to a customer because what if the Customer only wants the SINGLE LIFE where he can see whatever Female he wants amongst doing other things that he does not want to do with a "GIRLFRIEND".  And that Provider might get a Review with the conversation mentioned in it. What would other Customers say or think. And will she get the same amount of Customers or less?